Comments on: Sexy Lingerie – Why Every Woman Needs Some

By: Tara

Tara — Thu, 04 Mar 2010 18:48:59 +0000

His fetish isn't bad but if you too do not agree on it then it will hurt your relationship. Just be honest with him and admit that you do not have intrest in the fetish. If it doesn't really bother you then I would let it be though.
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By: Little Princess

Little Princess — Thu, 04 Mar 2010 18:46:59 +0000

If he’s wanting you to play the role of the dominant, why are you bothering with tidying up the room and cupboard? I mean really, that should be his job. Why are you limiting your dominatrix role to just the bedroom?

He wants to serve you. Let him. Just because the two of you have moved into different homes doesn’t mean that he shouldn’t come over to clean your house. Why should you be wasting your time doing those menial tasks when he’s wanting to do it?

What’s that you say? You don’t think he wants to clean house for you? What do you think all this dominated by you stuff is all about?

Now, what’s that he’s saying? He says he doesn’t want to? Who cares what he does or doesn’t want. He *wants* whatever you tell him he wants. And give him twenty lashes for his insolence.

Don’t you think it’s about time to shift that role playing to more real life. If done right, he will find a way to make you start feeling more attractive and appealing.

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By: dontuwant2tiemeup

dontuwant2tiemeup — Thu, 04 Mar 2010 18:44:59 +0000

He seems into you, why not work on it a bit. He's willing why aren't you?
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By: Lady

Lady — Thu, 04 Mar 2010 18:42:59 +0000

It’s difficult to start answering this. Relationships are always so difficult and every one is so different from the other, thus others never know what goes on inside really. But as I don’t know you, I’ll be completely honest with you. I think he is gay… Otherwise, I just can’t understand why a guy wants to dress as a girl and thus he gets turned on!!! Apart from that, I think he’s being rather selfish, he only thinks about what he needs and wants, and what about you? I totally understand why you don’t have much self-esteem. He’s not seeing YOU.
Self-esteem… I’m gonna tell you sth that will hurt… Maybe the reason you haven’t ended up with him, that you’re still with him is because you’re afraid of being alone and start a new relationship from scratch, or of not finding the right person for you. I’m sorry, I know it’s cruel but I myself have been there.
You need to have confidence in you, and ask yourself what you want and need. Dig deep inside you and analyze the good and weak spots of this -freak- relationship.
Take heart, and do something about it NOW. It’s never too late…
Wish you all the best, you surely deserve it.
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By: GrEvilKin

GrEvilKin — Thu, 04 Mar 2010 18:40:59 +0000

You’re obviously not that sexually compatible, he’s a freak and you have ultra low self-esteem.

Tell him he doesn’t compliment you enough and because of that you feel unattractive to him. And tell him to lose the fetish, or at least tone it down. Seriously WTF.
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By: lbaker2656

lbaker2656 — Thu, 04 Mar 2010 18:38:59 +0000

You need to talk to him about your own needs. I agree that there is no point to sex if you don’t feel sexy. Talk to him and start with how to make you feel sexy again. Try explaining that you don’t want to do the whole "planned" dress- up everytime – sometimes you just want an old fashioned spontaneous romp! If that doesn’t help then you have to decide if he’s really the right guy for you.
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By: Katie

Katie — Thu, 04 Mar 2010 18:36:59 +0000

Hunny it doesn’t matter if ur overweight or underweight we all have beauty in some way. It’s the inner beauty that counts. You should be proud of who you are appearances arn’t everything what matters is the heart and the person you are that is what makes you beautiful. And I don’t know you but I know what its like to not have confidence in who you are. Love who you are and anyone who doesn’t like who you are isn’t worth your time. Now as for this whole thing with ur boyfriend goes I think you should talk to him. He obviously expresses how he feels so tell him how you feel. And maybe (i know ur gonna hate this answer) but maybe he’s just not the kinda guy you need. It sounds like he’s completely obsessed at being a cross dresser and if ur not into that you can’t change how u feel about it. So a word of advice start with talking it through with him about it and if ur still having a hard time re-evaluate what it is that is making you stay with him.
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By: t.andrews431@btinternet.com

t.andrews431@btinternet.com — Thu, 04 Mar 2010 18:34:59 +0000

Tell him that you think he is putting to much pressure on you to do things you do not feel ready for, then only do what you feel comfortable with. If he truely loves you he wil back off.
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By: Bella Means Beautiful

Bella Means Beautiful — Thu, 04 Mar 2010 18:32:59 +0000

I understand that you love him and that you 2 have been together for quite a while, but if you can't handle the way he acts during sex, or the way he is or his fetishes then maybe hes not the right one for you.
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By: Mel

Mel — Thu, 04 Mar 2010 18:30:59 +0000

It's all a little much for me....get rid of him!!
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