Jun
9
2010
9
2010
Tips to Spice Up Your Marriage
Every marriage needs a little relief from the same old bedroom
routine now and then. Here is a collection of tips to up the
Scoville units in your romance.
Get Wet and Wild
The bath or shower can be more than just a place to get clean!
It can also be a sexy rendezvous to reconnect with your spouse.
Taking the time to bathe each other and wash one another’s hair
can be a sensual delight. Steam up the bathroom with some erotic
accessories inviting to both you and your spouse. If you have
the available counter space or open shelves, place scented
candles around the room. Keep aromatic bath oils and waterproof
toys close by. Just be sure you have a private place to store
your toys if you have children or expect guests.
One if by Land…
Keep a set of “signal” sheets (or even just a signal pillow)
that you or your spouse can put on the bed to silently request a
romantic tryst. Pick an unusual color, a sexy material like
satin or a bold pattern – or a pillow with a sexy come-hither
saying on it.
An Appetite for Love
Prepare a dinner that is a prelude to love wearing nothing but
an apron and a smile. There are so many foods that have been
thought to be aphrodisiacs that you will have no problem
planning a menu. Some ideas are oysters, pine nuts, peaches,
grapes, walnuts — even asparagus – or just serve something
special to the two of you. More important than the food is that
the meal stirs the senses by evoking arousing smells, tastes and
textures. Don’t forget to play mood music and put candles in
every room. You don’t even have to make it to the bedroom – why
not have a change of sexual venue in the kitchen?
Go Postal!
Buy some pretty or provocative stationery – or use your computer
to create an invitation for a romantic date or trip for you and
your spouse. Include all of the details including the time,
date, what to wear and where to meet, but keep the romantic
event itself a surprise. Address the envelope to your spouse and
mail it to him or her. In this era of instant communication with
email, text messaging and cell phones, the invitation will be a
romantic surprise.
Let’s Dance
Remember when a mix tape was sooo romantic? To get you in the
mood, make a mix CD of all of your favorite sexy songs or fun
songs and have a dance together. Get as wild or as romantic as
you wish – your dances can go as far as you like. You can add a
bump-and-grind music and do your own strip tease or some salsa
and do your own forbidden dance of love.
Reach Out and Touch Someone
Don’t forget simple pleasures. Brushing your spouse’s hair, a
light sensual massage or just cuddling can be extremely
sensuous. Touching always leads to more touching. Play touching
games by seeing how lightly you can run your hands over your
spouse’s body, spell out suggestive words with your finger and
see if he or she can guess what you wrote.
Hide and Seek
Take a sexy picture of yourself and hide it with a suggestive
note in his or her briefcase, wallet or lunch box. Just make
sure not to put it where it may be found by children or
coworkers.
Trick or Treat
Costumes are not just for kids at Halloween.
There are so many sexy costumes out there for men and women. Try
role playing as a pilot and a stewardess – or a teacher and a
schoolgirl – or a real estate agent and a prospective home
buyer. The possibilities are endless. Fantasy foreplay can lead
you to realms of spiciness you never knew existed. Let your
imagination run wild.
Romance Zone
Keep your bedroom off limits for everything except sleep and
romance. Do not allow it to be a center of the household where
you write bills or do work, it should be a haven for you and
your spouse and a stress-free zone where you enjoy one another
and your marriage. Use soft colors and fabrics, fresh cut
flowers on your nightstand, mirrors and your favorite art -
anything to create an atmosphere of relaxation and sensuality.
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